So what does a sub get out of this all? Besides having to drink piss and suck on someone's hairy cunt and constantly being degraded and objectified? Licking a fake leather high heel doesn't seem like much of a reward.. I'm just trying to understand
I haven’t answered many anon questions recently, but I’ll give this one a try. I suppose you ask a fair question but it also shows that you have none of the wiring in you that makes a person either naturally dominant or submissive. If you had, believe me, you would understand. There is an abundance of material written on the subject, some more and some less scientific. If you don’t have it in you, if you merely look at the subject from the outside, you may understand it intellectually and superficially when reading that material, like you understand the logic of anything when it is well explained to you. But you will never get it, you will never really understand the craving and the need for it, the hunger that can be temporarily satisfied but will come right back again. Why do people love classical music, modern art or dangerous sports? When a person is submissive they want nothing more than to be dominated, preferably by that special person they want to give control to. It’s not about the particular acts you mention or any others like them, it’s a state of mind. Please ask one of the many wonderful subs in Tumblr and I’m sure you will get a better answer.